First, let’s quickly define what a "friend" is. A friend is someone you share a relationship with, someone you talk to about everyday things, and sometimes even personal matters. Friends can come from anywhere: work, school, or even completely random places.
Now, what makes a good friend? There are many defining factors, but some key ones include being supportive, always there for you, and willing to stand by you through thick and thin.
A friend should be supportive. When you’re going through a tough time, a good friend will be there for you emotionally and mentally. But let me be clear: being supportive doesn’t always mean being nice. A true friend might scold you or even shout at you if you’ve done something wrong—but it’s always for your own good. During your struggles, a supportive friend stays by your side, offering strength when you need it most.
Another important factor is compromise or even sacrifice. If a friend is willing to adjust for you, that’s a sign of a strong bond. For example, say you love German food, but your friend prefers Japanese. This creates a conflict of interest. If your friend agrees to eat German with you without argument, that’s a small sacrifice. They didn’t complain or cancel; they simply went along with your choice.
Compromise is slightly different. Instead of one person giving in, you find a middle ground. Using the same example, rather than choosing just German or Japanese, you could go to both restaurants, pick a mixed cuisine place, or order takeout from each. That way, both preferences are respected.
At the end of the day, a good friend makes life easier, funnier, and a little less lonely. That is worth holding onto.
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